Speaking for myself, I'd have to admit, to the uninitiated — to anyone who doesn't live in my head — I can seem like a bitch. At least that's what the rules of society dictate. I'm direct in my speech, embrace the courage of my convictions, and make informed decisions. As I like to say, I am that "bITch” that badass IT chick. That's not to say that I don't struggle with some measure of indecisiveness; many…